Archive - Letters to Lauren

We Had the Perfect Family: Why Did My Husband Choose His Affair Partner? (Best Of)

When his adult children issue an ultimatum, an unfaithful husband makes a surprising choice.

Aug 13 •

Our Affair Was Discovered, and Now I'm Divorcing Alone.

An AP grieves alone now that her affair partner is working on his marriage.

Aug 6 •

July 2025

How Do I Get Over My Affair Partner?

A wife is reconciling her marriage but still gets excited at the thought of seeing her affair partner.

Jul 30 •

We Both Had Affairs. Can Our Marriage Survive?

An unfaithful spouse struggles to know the way forward after learning about her husband's betrayal.

Jul 23 •

My Husband's Leaving For His Affair Partner, and I Hope It Doesn't Work Out.

A betrayed spouse wonders how to manage her revenge fantasies toward her husband and his new life.

Jul 16 •

How Do I Celebrate Our Anniversary When There's Been Betrayal?

A betrayed spouse struggles as her wedding anniversary AND D-Day anniversary approach.

Jul 9 •

How Do I Stop Ruminating About My Husband's Affair?

A betrayed spouse's questions about the past are keeping her from moving forward.

Jul 2 •

June 2025

Do I Choose My Affair or My Marriage?

An Exhausted Wife and AP Grapples With the Decision.

Jun 25 •

Our Affair is Over, and I Feel Used.

A married woman struggles after her married affair partner moved away with his wife.

Jun 18 •

How Do I End My Affair?

A Ready Wife Wants Action Steps.

Jun 11 •

He Left His Wife and Kids to Be With Me; So Why Am I Worried?

An AP's fears about how their relationship began haunts her as they move forward.

Jun 4 •

May 2025

We're Both Married, and I Feel Like I'm Losing My Mind.

Four years in, the vicious cycle of the affair is taking its toll.

May 28 •

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